Sunday, April 24, 2016

It Doesn't Come Off!


Saturday, March 12, 2016 It has been an exhausting week with long days and temperatures in the 90’s. When the natives complain that is too hot you know it must really be hot!  I’ve been told that in this type of heat when a snake tries to cross the road he will curl and then spring into the air so that he doesn’t have to touch the hot sand.  I’ve never seen them coil and spring and I’m ok with that :)

The surprise of the week is our hard working crew left without any communication.  They all disappeared and are not answering their cell phones. It seems a man on a motorbike made a visit while they were working. The conversation was short and he left.  They left too a day later!  We’ve come to the conclusion that we must have been a fill in job until their boss had work again.

We hired a new crew and their specialty is mason work which we have a lot of it to do!  I’m at the work site from morning to night every day to make sure things go smoothly and correctly.  We don’t need any short cuts and we want things “level!”  The workers have to be watched steady.  Just when you think they understand and you relax a bit they return to their old ways.  I hear comments from the workers like; I’ve never seen a mama like this, Mama Linda is very strict!  Mazungu fundi! (White woman carpenter)  How did you know that?  Are you an engineer? One thing I’ve come to notice, if you were to stay you could teach the mama’s how to be fundis/carpenters.

As we walk to the shop at corner for a soda there are cows coming our way.  It’s not unusual to share the village road with cows or donkeys but this time we step into the bushes.  There is a mean black cow coming our way that is known to chase people. When I see the look of terror on the face of the mama walking with me I do exactly as I’m told.  The cows take their time and walk down the middle of the road while we stand still and quiet in the bushes.

We met with one of the village officials while we drank our warm soda and we are informed at how pleased the leaders are with the school that is being built. The hardships that the village people face make it difficult for their children to go to school.  HIV has hit this area hard and many children have lost one or both parents.  Taito is divided into two sections being section A and B.  One section is down by the main road and the other section is up in the hills where we work.  This section has 280 families and most of them are very poor and uneducated.

This area represents many different tribes living in the same area together.  While at the worksite the director of the school shares some of the tribal ways with me. He tells me of a friend’s grandfather who had 72 “good wives.”  The definition of a good wife means she stays at home. 

The man’s status in the village was determined by the number of wives.  Having many wives was important as a man with many wives made a powerful leader.  He looked strong to those within the village. Having children was extremely important to the woman and the man. A woman with a lot of children would not be liked by the other women as they would become jealous and bitter enemies. Having a large number of wives and many children was extremely important but going to school was not even a consideration.

When a wife has a child she does not stay with her husband for two years.  When it is time for the husband to return to his wife the child will take food to his father. This is a sign and an invitation for him to return.  In the period of being apart for two years he will marry another wife.

The director, from the Kisii tribe, is now a Christian but as a child he was brought up to worship the mountains and the sun. When you had a problem in your life it meant you had done something to upset your forefathers and the problem would not go away unless you made them happy. This meant there had to be a visit to the witch doctor. He tells of times when the witch doctor would swing a dead chicken around his head to sanctify him.  There were also times when his body was cut with a razor and a mixture of herbs prescribed by the witch doctor would be poured into the open wound.

He remembers an uncle that would kill an animal and put the meat on his body.  He would then walk a long distance to please the gods.  Then the meat would be eaten.
He was the first in his family to accept Jesus into his heart, later his brothers followed and his mother too!  They now worship the creator and not creation.  

The hills are peppered with such beliefs and customs and people are reluctant to let go of what their family and tribe has been doing and believing for generations.

There over 42 tribes in Kenya and their languages, cultures and beliefs are very different.  Some worship the sea while others worship the mountains, rivers, cows or Sycamore trees.

The Caligen tribe worships the cows, Kikuyu mountains and Sycamore trees, Luo ancestral spirits and they will spit toward the sunrise and sunset when they pray. There are so many more tribes each with their own beliefs.
The days are extremely hot and the sun chases us around until we find some shade. The umbrella that I carry with me becomes useful even though it is not raining. The children have a break around 10 when they are served porridge and then another around 1 when it is time for lunch.  The few minutes we have to play toss brings a lot of joy into their day.    
After running and being in the sun it feels good to sit on the ground and rest a bit.  They surround me and study me intently. My hair is touched, my earrings are twisted round and round and then someone gets brave.  I sense fear as someone quickly touches my leg and pulls away. When they look in their hand I see a surprised look as my white skin did not wipe off!

The teacher holds the bell in her hand and rings it back and forth.  It’s time to leave the playground and return to class. The children quickly respond and run toward the door but before they enter they make a turn and head out back to the latrine.  Somewhere along the way the ringing of the bell has taken on a new meaning.  To the children it means it is time for a latrine break instead of its time for class :)
Some of the children have missed a few days of school this week because of a death in the hills. A young mama was giving birth to her first child and died. Without the money for transportation and medical fees children are usually delivered at home.
The classrooms are shaping up fast.  The floors have been leveled and good soil has been brought in.  They have been compressed by pounding them over and over again. A solution has been poured into the soil to discourage the termites and then finally a layer of plastic has been put down.   

 The first layer of concrete has been poured and some of the walls are being plastered.
Others are doing the framing for the placement of the doors and windows. We are excited to see each part of the building come together.
 As we set our window frames in place so that we can admire them we realize that some of the windows open the wrong way.  There is also a problem with the doors as the iron frame does not have the holes to permit the nails to go into the wooden frame. The doors and windows that need to be corrected are tied on the back of a motorbike and sent for repair.  There are always little surprises throughout the day that take more time and more patience.


It’s the dry season and our demand on the well has been too much. The words “the well is dry” wasn’t what anyone wanted to hear in the midst of pouring concrete.   

The neighbor’s punda/donkey comes to our rescue though and keeps the water coming throughout the day. The river isn’t too far away and makes it possible for us to finish.

Nehemiah 4:6…..the people worked with all their heart.

Thursday, April 21, 2016

In Search of Peace



Sunday, March 6, 2106 Once we are on the other side of the slums the views change and the peaceful country side stares back at us.  The vast open fields give the people here a future. Soon they will plant and the crops will bring food and seasonal jobs. The small river that we cross over is used for bathing and the sight of the car doesn’t seem to cause any alarm.  Mount Elgon is today’s backdrop and it looks like we are going to drive right into the side of this massive extinct volcano.  This mountain stands in Uganda as well as Kenya and reaches toward the clouds without shame.
Rafiki village is a settlement made up of people that left Mt Elgon in search of peace. They were tired of the tribal clashes that continued to flare up in the mountain ranges.
They left their homeland and traveled down the mountain not knowing where they were going.  When they settled in their new land they called it “Rafiki” which means friends.
When I arrived I was stunned at all the changes that had taken place since I saw them last. Stunned and impressed as I know how little these people have. The church no longer stood by itself on the little knoll but was in the center of a long row of classrooms.  They had added classrooms to both ends of the church making it possible to continue with the village children’s education.  Their precious school and church had been demolished one Saturday night in 2014.  When they went to church in the morning there was nothing standing only a pile of rubble could be seen.
It makes me happy to see how they worked together to reach a goal that had to look impossible in the beginning. They have kept the church looking nice and they even added a cement floor!

It was good to be together once again and to thank the Lord for all that he has done.  The Lord had certainly taken a very dark hour and turned it into showers of blessings for the people of Rafiki. They now had a better property, a nicer church, lots of class rooms and a well!  
They were so thankful for the gifts from USA.  Just knowing that someone was thinking about them and cared enough to send a gift really spoke to their heart.  
The men each went home with a tie and the ladies were given a cloth money bag that will be used repeatedly.   
Everyone went home with a gift, even the children!  They received colorful slipper socks that my mom, Charlotte Towne, made.  When the rains come they will have something to keep their feet warm during the nights.
The ladies hurried to their kitchen behind the church to make tea and we sat in a circle and visited some more.   
The day was coming to a close and it was time to leave the quiet village of Rafiki.  A few of the children gathered around the bike as I made myself ready to go and from a side road I hear my name being called. There in the distance are a couple small children dancing from side to side and waving at me. A woman with some binoculars in a nice case comes running up to the bike.  She wants to sell them at a good price. Where would a woman in Rafiki get binoculars? The red flags go up and they are left behind.


Monday, March 7, 2016 People in Kitale town have heard that the President is coming and with some international investors. So things in town are changing and are getting put in order. The paint brushes are out and a coat of fresh paint is being added to the faded store fronts.  Garbage is being picked up and bushes and flowers are being planted. 

It is customary to be checked before going in to the store for groceries.  The guards will scan underneath your car with a large round mirror and look inside your vehicle and the trunk before allowing you through the gate.  It doesn’t end there as everyone has to walk through a metal detector at the entrance of the store as your bag and pocket items are placed on the belt to be screened. It is also customary to have random police checks on the roads coming in to town. The spike mats put across the roads are reminders that it will be very costly if you do not stop.  These security measures are routine and have become part of life but now there will be more officers and military present.

The street children, no matter how young they are, will be picked up and thrown in a cell with older criminals. They will make a sweep through town and take them away.  Some of the older street boys have already “hit the road.”  They have managed to find their way to another town about an hour and half away.  

 A group has been formed to help care for the children that are willing to leave the streets and stay at a center during this time. They will be fed, kept warm, play games, make crafts and do things that children love to do.  The word is out and they have a choice and although it sounds like an easy choice the pull of the street life is very strong.
In one morning the little shops on the corners and beside the roads were demolished. These small kiosks are simply made and usually without the skill of a good carpenter but the investment is costly for those trying to find a way to feed their family.  In time they will find a way to start over.
Traveling is dangerous here but there are some roads that are just too small for all that is going on. There isn’t any order and everyone is in a rush.  Today a bike came so close to me it caught my arm and started to pull our bike over but with a quick twist of the body I set us free and the bike remained upright.  A bruised arm but a thankful heart!
Our windows and doors are finished and the next challenge is to find a way to get them to the school.
Even though the motorbike is popular and used for delivering eggs, hay, couches and all kinds of things. I still would like to find something else. 

Our delivery vehicle might have taken a little longer but it did the job just fine.  Everything has to be stored and locked up to prevent it from disappearing and Mama Rhoda has offered to let us use her kitchen which is a separate building outside the main house.
The men are busy working on the inside walls. The brick pile is getting smaller and the walls are getting higher! The mama's don't hesitate to work hard either and their goal today is to clean up the piles of dirt in front of the school. The little guy wants to help too! This soil will not go to waste as they have plans to make portable gardens by using maize sacks.

The children continue with their studies even with the work going on outside but today they get to leave class for a haircut! It is costly for the girls to have their hair braided so most school children, boys and girls, keep their hair cut short. It’s about a twenty to thirty minute walk, which is “not far” for a Kenyan, and it will give the children time to release some energy.   
Not only do we make sure their hair is kept neat but we send them home with a pair of slippers that my mom, Charlotte Towne, made for them. They looked very “smart” as they left school today. Their hair was neat. They had slippers in hand and big smiles on their faces :)
 
Psalms 90:17 May the favor of the Lord our God rest upon us; establish the work of our hands for us - yes, establish the work of our hands.