April 22, 2014 (Tuesday) In January we walked into a compound
where a mother had just passed away. She
had been killed by a man who beat her to death with an iron pipe. She left
eight children ages sixteen to seven months. People had already started to gather outside of her home made of mud. A woman was on
her knees crying out “Remember me, God remember me.” She cried this prayer of agony over and over
again. This Turkana woman who wore the
facial lines of a life that had been very hard was mourning the death of another
child. She saw the faces of the eight
children and knew she didn’t have the means to care for them. She cried out to God for help. The village
erupted in discord after the death of Esther and the grandmother left the area
out of fear of another family member being hurt.
We sent out
scouts to look for her and the children and she was found in another village
further away. The children were suffering and going without. When we arrived she was picking through a few beans that were at her feet. She hadn't anything else to give them. We have
traveled the distance and weathered the potholes, both natural and spiritual;
we have continued to reach out to them caring for the hunger they face and
their medical needs.
During our visits we heard of an uncle that makes the
decisions for the family. In most cases
when the father dies the oldest boy becomes the head of the family and makes all of the decisions.
As we sit
together for the first time we see kindness and concern from this young man’s
heart. He has a family of his own and the responsibility placed upon him is
great. The Children’s Officer for the
Trans Nzoia district sits with us as well. We want to make sure that everything
is done is order so that we don’t open the door to trouble in the future. Our hearts are rejoicing as we see that very
soon the children will be released to join their new family.
April 24, 2014 (Thursday) In the village of Wamuini the women
are putting some finishing touches on the building that will soon be the
bedrooms for the children.
The mud is
red and cool to their feet. They smooth the last coat of mud onto the outside
walls until it takes on its own finished look.
It is a slow process but in the end it will shine of quality
workmanship. The inside floors are
cement as breathing the dust of the floors can bring some health issues to the
children. We have glass in the windows
to protect the children from the cool night air and the dampness that rainy season
brings. Electricity has been brought into
their bedrooms from the main house to eliminate the possibility of fires from
the use of candles so close to their bedding.
We have worked hard to give them a safe home!
The beds
have been made from very hard wood, blue gum, and are very strong. He have an
attached box at the end of each bed for their belongings. Yesterday we walked the streets of Kitale looking for bedding of good quality that will hold up to the harsh soap and the
many washings they will receive. Not only were we interested in quality but also the best price. Prices vary from shop to shop and it's necessary to be alert and to know the average price range. It's even good to send a native, someone you trust, ahead of you as the prices tend to jump when they see white skin.
Everything
is coming together and it is a work day here in Wamuini. The Lord loves children and his eye has been
ever watchful over these precious ones. He has blessed them and continues to
bless them. We are so thankful for the prayers and support that you have sent
to help this family.
April 26, 2014 (Saturday) Today we are starting something new
for the children at Peniel Prayer Center.
There are many children that come every Saturday with their mama’s. They stay
for hours not really learning or even understanding as the day is gauged for
adults. We have a two hour session planed
for them and the teachers that will take over after I leave are coming as well. We have a day planned with activities, games and crafts
that are all centered on a Bible story.
My bag was full of props, pictures to color,
colored pencils, clay, a couple balls and even some cookies! My mind was completely engaged in making sure
this was a good day, a fun day of learning for them when my phone rang.
This was the
day!! The children were being released to their new home in Wamuini. I was happy, I felt like crying but part of
me was on guard because we’ve had so many false starts along the way. Could this really be happening? We set
the time for the afternoon as my morning was spoken for and I left for the prayer
center with a very light and happy heart. It felt like spring was in the air.
The children
with all of their energy and excitement filled the chairs while the teachers
that will replace me observed from the side.
Over fifty children looked my way and they were very ready to have fun!
We sang a
few songs and then had our Bible story. We then turned it into a play and
finding volunteers for the actors was not a hard thing to do :) Their chairs became a desk while they knelt
on the floor to color their Bible story picture. We even went outside for a game of “hot potato”
which helped us learn the memory verse.
It was a fantastic beginning and as the roots are watered it will grow
even bigger.
It was then
off to the village of Wamuini to get the rooms in order. The pastor’s children
were excited and helped in every way they could. The children had already been claimed by the pastor's whole
family and I was hearing comments about their “new sisters and their new
brothers.”
The children
were waiting for us outside. They were all sitting around their grandmother in
their Sunday best. They smelled of soap and it was obvious they had prepared
themselves for leaving. We greeted one
another and I sat on the ground with the children. The grandmother with the
stern look of a Turkana woman held the baby tightly to her.
We were
welcomed inside and again faced more challenges as the aunt only wanted us to
take the older three. There was a concern; “Who would carry the firewood?” It was important that we left in peace and
that we kept the children together as that was the grandmother’s wishes. It was
necessary to have everyone in agreement or walk away. The uncle in charge once again had to be
notified and there were many phone calls back and forth.
It came time
for the final instructions and Pauline, the grandmother, sat close beside me
while someone interpreted what she had to say.
She spoke from a heart of love and concern for her grandchildren. 'If she hears of anyone beating the children they
will forever be her enemy. If she hears that they are loved and treated well
they will forever be her friend.' Her
requests and concerns went on and they showed me a heart that wanted the best
for children.
It was late,
the sun had set, as we stood together for prayer within this humble home. Pauline, the grandmother, prayed first. She prayed over the children as she released
them into God’s protection and care. She blessed the children and those that she was
giving them to. She blessed the white woman for not giving up. She stood firm and strong as her voice rolled
into the heavens.
The children
walked to the van without a look back.
There were no goodbyes, no hugs, no “I love you” said, not one tear was
shed. The van was
full of little faces and as I turned to observe how they were doing I saw
nothing but smiles looking my way.
We had one
more stop in another village before returning.
Peter the oldest boy had remained in his mother’s village. He had been
offered a job which would pay him 1000 KES a month or about 58 cents a day. Peter knew that we were working on his behalf
but he didn’t know when things would come together and he had no idea that we
were coming for him today. He approached
the van and we told him he was leaving now for his new home. The smile that covered his face was
wonderful. It was priceless! It was a joyful time of reunion as he entered the van and joined his siblings. Happy chatter went into my ears and touched
my heart. That moment of seeing them
reunite made all of the struggles that we had faced worth it. They were once again together as a family; one that understood
each other and all that they had gone through.
They understood each other’s pain and loss. Siblings that had gone through such horrific
tragedy and seen things that no eye should have to look on had been brought
back together for a new day, a new journey, a new home…..a safe home!
It was dark
when we entered through the barbed wire gate of their new home and our head lights
pierced through the darkness and stopped. The pastor’s wife and his
children were waiting outside in the dark with warm welcomes and open hearts.
James 1:27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to
look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from
being polluted by the world.